Day 20
In the last 4 days in our community, we have lost 2 special people by suicide. I find this very troubling, not just because of the pain their families are experiencing but because I don’t understand it. I have wondered what happens in someone’s life that’s so bad that they cannot endure even one more day. I know life can be so hard sometimes. I’ve experienced heartache and difficulties in my life too but I have thankfully never reached that point. I’ve known of people that committed suicide that appeared to have it all together and that’s what troubles me. How susceptible am I to these thoughts? I like to think not at all but how do I know? Do I have a little more grit? Am I stronger because I have a family that loves me unconditionally but did not indulge me as I was growing up? No, I think I am weak and so are most people when the world begins to beat up on us relentlessly.
So how do I protect myself from this moment of insanity that says that life is not worth living any longer and that I will not be missed by my loved ones? The only answer that I have for me is that I want to snuggle up as close to Jesus as I can possibly be, studying His word every day and spending time in prayer with Him. No one is impervious to the attacks of Satan except Jesus. 2 Corinthians 1:3 says ‘Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles….’ I am thankful to have the comfort of God in all my troubles because I do not know what tomorrow holds. I do not know how weak life can make me or how vulnerable I really am. I don’t want to find out. All I know is that I have today to draw closer to Him, to prepare me for tomorrow. And I find peace and comfort in that.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Friday, September 25, 2009
A Friend Loves at All Times
Day 19
I’m so excited because tomorrow I am going shoe shopping with a dear friend, Linda and her daughter Sarah. We are going to a fabulous store in Asheville that’s 3 stories tall and sells nothing but shoes! This is our annual shoe shopping trip together and I always look forward to it. A shoe shopping trip is always a big treat but more importantly, it’s the opportunity that Linda and I have to spend some time together. Our schedules are so full and we’re so busy with all our activities that sometimes we go for months and don’t even take the time to say hello to one another. But I think of Linda and Sarah often and I know that she does me too. And of course almost every shoe in my closet reminds me of the time spent together laughing, shopping and eating.
As I was studying the Word this morning, I was reminded of Proverbs 17:17 that says ‘A friend loves at all times.’ Sometimes we have friends in our lives that have expectations of us. I’ve had such friends that would become upset with me when I wasn’t available at all times or felt threatened when I developed other close friendships. These friendships don’t last and can become a source of stress and anxiety. But to have a friend that loves at all times, that is delighted to have the opportunity to spend a day together, whether it’s once a year or once a week is a blessing from the Lord. I know that I can call Linda, day or night, with good news or bad and she’s there for me, just as I would be her. I give thanks for this kind of special friendship. And tomorrow, we begin the indoctrination of young Miss Sarah into the special world of marathon shoe shopping. Sarah, rest well tonight for tomorrow is a very big day!
I’m so excited because tomorrow I am going shoe shopping with a dear friend, Linda and her daughter Sarah. We are going to a fabulous store in Asheville that’s 3 stories tall and sells nothing but shoes! This is our annual shoe shopping trip together and I always look forward to it. A shoe shopping trip is always a big treat but more importantly, it’s the opportunity that Linda and I have to spend some time together. Our schedules are so full and we’re so busy with all our activities that sometimes we go for months and don’t even take the time to say hello to one another. But I think of Linda and Sarah often and I know that she does me too. And of course almost every shoe in my closet reminds me of the time spent together laughing, shopping and eating.
As I was studying the Word this morning, I was reminded of Proverbs 17:17 that says ‘A friend loves at all times.’ Sometimes we have friends in our lives that have expectations of us. I’ve had such friends that would become upset with me when I wasn’t available at all times or felt threatened when I developed other close friendships. These friendships don’t last and can become a source of stress and anxiety. But to have a friend that loves at all times, that is delighted to have the opportunity to spend a day together, whether it’s once a year or once a week is a blessing from the Lord. I know that I can call Linda, day or night, with good news or bad and she’s there for me, just as I would be her. I give thanks for this kind of special friendship. And tomorrow, we begin the indoctrination of young Miss Sarah into the special world of marathon shoe shopping. Sarah, rest well tonight for tomorrow is a very big day!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Start Your Day Off Right -- Spend Time in God's Word -- It's Powerful
Day 18
This morning my day did not get off to a great start. Nothing in particular happened, just general frustrations of life. So as I have this sense of irritation, I’m thinking to myself, how do I get into prayer and Bible study? What do you do on those days when you’re feeling ill and anything but spiritual? As I open my Bible, just not feeling it, I see God’s word and am reminded of how powerful it is. I’m reminded that this is His way of speaking to me and I really need to hear His voice on days like this. As I read through just a few verses of scripture, I begin to notice the edge in my attitude melting away and I ask God to lead me to what He has for me today. It’s amazing how just a few minutes with the Lord can give an attitude adjustment even more powerful than when my mom would give me the eye. And that’s pretty powerful!
In John 14:27 Jesus says “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world gives, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” The world can’t give us the peace that comes with knowing Jesus. So when you don’t feel like spending time with the Lord, just remember the Nike slogan ‘Just Do It’! It sums it up better than anything I can say. I’m glad I did this morning. Now I’m ready for the world. Bring it on!
This morning my day did not get off to a great start. Nothing in particular happened, just general frustrations of life. So as I have this sense of irritation, I’m thinking to myself, how do I get into prayer and Bible study? What do you do on those days when you’re feeling ill and anything but spiritual? As I open my Bible, just not feeling it, I see God’s word and am reminded of how powerful it is. I’m reminded that this is His way of speaking to me and I really need to hear His voice on days like this. As I read through just a few verses of scripture, I begin to notice the edge in my attitude melting away and I ask God to lead me to what He has for me today. It’s amazing how just a few minutes with the Lord can give an attitude adjustment even more powerful than when my mom would give me the eye. And that’s pretty powerful!
In John 14:27 Jesus says “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world gives, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” The world can’t give us the peace that comes with knowing Jesus. So when you don’t feel like spending time with the Lord, just remember the Nike slogan ‘Just Do It’! It sums it up better than anything I can say. I’m glad I did this morning. Now I’m ready for the world. Bring it on!
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
The Quality of Our Prayer Life
Day 17
This morning I’m thinking about the quality of my prayer life. Too often my prayers sound more like my grocery list than a heartfelt conversation before my Lord. I have so much comfort in knowing that I can take anything to God in prayer. Sometimes I pray about needs that I have. I pray about needs of others and prayer requests that have been given to me by others. Sometimes I pray about my fears or about people that I don’t especially like a lot or that have been mean or rude to me. Sometimes I have to pray about the times I have been mean or rude or have had ugly thoughts. And I believe all of this is OK. We read in James 5:16 that “the effectual prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.” The Lord already knows our heart and our thoughts so it’s not like we’re disclosing some big secret when we pray about the bad things about our lives as well as the good or share with Him our greatest spiritual or physical needs.
But this morning I realized that my prayers do not always include all the many things that I have to be thankful for. As I began to give thanks, I realized that I could spend the entire day in prayer and never get to the end of this list. I prayed for sunshine that we’re finally getting, the rain that we just had, the health to get out of bed, a husband that is sweet enough to cook my breakfast, fresh water for a shower, soap and shampoo, a car to drive that has gas in it, my dogs that are always glad to see me, a business and the office building, my church and my church family, my family that lets me celebrate a birthday when it’s not really my birthday and…….. Well, you see, the list could just go on forever. We have an awesome God that is ready and willing to hear our prayers and cherishes the prayers of thanksgiving. I’m thankful for the Lord.
This morning I’m thinking about the quality of my prayer life. Too often my prayers sound more like my grocery list than a heartfelt conversation before my Lord. I have so much comfort in knowing that I can take anything to God in prayer. Sometimes I pray about needs that I have. I pray about needs of others and prayer requests that have been given to me by others. Sometimes I pray about my fears or about people that I don’t especially like a lot or that have been mean or rude to me. Sometimes I have to pray about the times I have been mean or rude or have had ugly thoughts. And I believe all of this is OK. We read in James 5:16 that “the effectual prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.” The Lord already knows our heart and our thoughts so it’s not like we’re disclosing some big secret when we pray about the bad things about our lives as well as the good or share with Him our greatest spiritual or physical needs.
But this morning I realized that my prayers do not always include all the many things that I have to be thankful for. As I began to give thanks, I realized that I could spend the entire day in prayer and never get to the end of this list. I prayed for sunshine that we’re finally getting, the rain that we just had, the health to get out of bed, a husband that is sweet enough to cook my breakfast, fresh water for a shower, soap and shampoo, a car to drive that has gas in it, my dogs that are always glad to see me, a business and the office building, my church and my church family, my family that lets me celebrate a birthday when it’s not really my birthday and…….. Well, you see, the list could just go on forever. We have an awesome God that is ready and willing to hear our prayers and cherishes the prayers of thanksgiving. I’m thankful for the Lord.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Listen, for I Have Worthy Things to Say
Day 16
I was listening to this song on the radio in my car on the way into the office this morning. I don’t know the name of the song or who sings it but there was a phrase in the song that really touched me. It said something about how we are always striving to be heard when we really should strive to listen. The truth of that statement immediately caught my attention.
We are constantly being bombarded with advertisers’ messages online, on the radio or TV or just about anything you pick up to look at or listen to. There are thousands of messages coming to us every day. Someone wants to be heard and they want you to be listening to them. They want you to hear their message and buy their product, support their cause or believe what they believe. And, so does God. But He doesn’t blast it out to us or use creative marketing techniques to try to reach us or trick us. He’s there steadily and consistently, day in and day out, never failing us, never going away, never turning His back. He wants to be heard but He wants us to hear Him for our own benefit. He wants to give us the guidance and wisdom that we so desperately need to navigate the world we live in. He wants us to strive to LISTEN much more than we strive to be heard. We don’t have to be concerned about whether or not He’s listening to us. He is. He just needs us to do the same for Him. Proverbs 8:6 very simply says, ‘Listen, for I have worthy things to say.’ Enough said. I’ll just listen now.
I was listening to this song on the radio in my car on the way into the office this morning. I don’t know the name of the song or who sings it but there was a phrase in the song that really touched me. It said something about how we are always striving to be heard when we really should strive to listen. The truth of that statement immediately caught my attention.
We are constantly being bombarded with advertisers’ messages online, on the radio or TV or just about anything you pick up to look at or listen to. There are thousands of messages coming to us every day. Someone wants to be heard and they want you to be listening to them. They want you to hear their message and buy their product, support their cause or believe what they believe. And, so does God. But He doesn’t blast it out to us or use creative marketing techniques to try to reach us or trick us. He’s there steadily and consistently, day in and day out, never failing us, never going away, never turning His back. He wants to be heard but He wants us to hear Him for our own benefit. He wants to give us the guidance and wisdom that we so desperately need to navigate the world we live in. He wants us to strive to LISTEN much more than we strive to be heard. We don’t have to be concerned about whether or not He’s listening to us. He is. He just needs us to do the same for Him. Proverbs 8:6 very simply says, ‘Listen, for I have worthy things to say.’ Enough said. I’ll just listen now.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Choose the Right Path and Mentor
Day 15
I can’t believe it’s been two weeks now since we began this journey. I’ve pondered today what have I learned but maybe the better question is - what’s different about me? Has it begun to make any difference that I am digging into God’s word to seek out guidance and wisdom?
My first observation is that I think of the Lord more often. Actually, I think of Him all throughout the day now. I think of how my actions, thoughts, plans, everything I say or do is viewed through His eyes. Some days I’m ashamed or disappointed. Some days I know that I have dodged a bullet because I tried to think through a situation the way He would have me think instead of just my own way. I’ve mentioned several times that I also have a greater sense of calm and clarity. I’m not saying I have it all figured out. Trust me when I say that I absolutely do not. This isn’t a 100 day journey, this is a lifelong journey. But I guess if I had to sum it up, I would say that I know I have chosen the right path, the right Mentor. I also realize that in God’s eyes, it’s not about who I am, it’s much more about who I am becoming. I’m encouraged when I read in Phillipians 1:6 ‘being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.’ I know that the Lord has a lot more work to do in me and work that will be done through me. I’m excited to see where the next 85 days will lead! And I’m so glad that you are sharing this journey with me.
I can’t believe it’s been two weeks now since we began this journey. I’ve pondered today what have I learned but maybe the better question is - what’s different about me? Has it begun to make any difference that I am digging into God’s word to seek out guidance and wisdom?
My first observation is that I think of the Lord more often. Actually, I think of Him all throughout the day now. I think of how my actions, thoughts, plans, everything I say or do is viewed through His eyes. Some days I’m ashamed or disappointed. Some days I know that I have dodged a bullet because I tried to think through a situation the way He would have me think instead of just my own way. I’ve mentioned several times that I also have a greater sense of calm and clarity. I’m not saying I have it all figured out. Trust me when I say that I absolutely do not. This isn’t a 100 day journey, this is a lifelong journey. But I guess if I had to sum it up, I would say that I know I have chosen the right path, the right Mentor. I also realize that in God’s eyes, it’s not about who I am, it’s much more about who I am becoming. I’m encouraged when I read in Phillipians 1:6 ‘being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.’ I know that the Lord has a lot more work to do in me and work that will be done through me. I’m excited to see where the next 85 days will lead! And I’m so glad that you are sharing this journey with me.
Friday, September 18, 2009
Celebration in Honor of one of God's Children -- My Dad
Day 14
Yesterday was a very special day for me. Yesterday, I celebrated my birthday! But it wasn’t really my birthday. Every year for the past 11 years I have celebrated my birthday on September 17th even though my actual birthday is December 31st. When my dad passed away 11 years ago, being a daddy’s girl, I was so heartbroken I could hardly bear it. And even though I knew that I would always miss my dad, I had this crazy idea that he would be forgotten. So to make sure that didn’t happen, I decided to celebrate my birthday on what was really his birthday, September 17th. As a child I always complained about my birthday being so close to Christmas and New Year’s because it never seemed special. Yes, I was completely spoiled and so indulgent. I mean, who complains about a birthday? So this seemed like a perfect way to ‘reschedule’ my birthday and deal with my grief over the passing of my dad. As it turned out, no one in the family participates in my ‘rescheduling’ except my mom and my younger brother Preston. Everyone else in the family rolls their eyes at me and reminds me how spoiled I am and that no one in their right mind thinks they can change their birthday. But, I did it anyway and if Mom agrees, since she had a big part in bringing me into the world, then it must be OK. Yesterday, my mom came to the office and brought food, cake, decorations, the whole works. We had a fabulous time here at the office with all the ladies and my mom. I had a great birthday!
But I also remembered why I did this. I didn’t want myself or anyone else to forget that this was really my dad’s special day. 1 Corinthians 1:9 tells us that ‘God is faithful, through whom you were called into fellowship with His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.’ It reminds me that God is faithful to heal our heartache and to fill all voids that are left with the passing of a loved one. Even though I miss my dad, I don’t grieve over him because I know he is walking daily with the Lord and he knows no suffering. I still have lots of fun with the adopted birthday and all the ribbing I get from everyone about it but my dad will not be forgotten and I will not forget the comfort that the Lord gave me during one of the saddest times of my life. I can’t help but believe that the Lord and my dad were both smiling yesterday as we celebrated a special day in remembrance of one of His children.
Yesterday was a very special day for me. Yesterday, I celebrated my birthday! But it wasn’t really my birthday. Every year for the past 11 years I have celebrated my birthday on September 17th even though my actual birthday is December 31st. When my dad passed away 11 years ago, being a daddy’s girl, I was so heartbroken I could hardly bear it. And even though I knew that I would always miss my dad, I had this crazy idea that he would be forgotten. So to make sure that didn’t happen, I decided to celebrate my birthday on what was really his birthday, September 17th. As a child I always complained about my birthday being so close to Christmas and New Year’s because it never seemed special. Yes, I was completely spoiled and so indulgent. I mean, who complains about a birthday? So this seemed like a perfect way to ‘reschedule’ my birthday and deal with my grief over the passing of my dad. As it turned out, no one in the family participates in my ‘rescheduling’ except my mom and my younger brother Preston. Everyone else in the family rolls their eyes at me and reminds me how spoiled I am and that no one in their right mind thinks they can change their birthday. But, I did it anyway and if Mom agrees, since she had a big part in bringing me into the world, then it must be OK. Yesterday, my mom came to the office and brought food, cake, decorations, the whole works. We had a fabulous time here at the office with all the ladies and my mom. I had a great birthday!
But I also remembered why I did this. I didn’t want myself or anyone else to forget that this was really my dad’s special day. 1 Corinthians 1:9 tells us that ‘God is faithful, through whom you were called into fellowship with His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.’ It reminds me that God is faithful to heal our heartache and to fill all voids that are left with the passing of a loved one. Even though I miss my dad, I don’t grieve over him because I know he is walking daily with the Lord and he knows no suffering. I still have lots of fun with the adopted birthday and all the ribbing I get from everyone about it but my dad will not be forgotten and I will not forget the comfort that the Lord gave me during one of the saddest times of my life. I can’t help but believe that the Lord and my dad were both smiling yesterday as we celebrated a special day in remembrance of one of His children.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
God's Wisdom Includes the Ability to Balance and Prioritize Things in Our Life
Day 13
I’m excited because this afternoon I am starting a walking/running program with a young teenager in our church that is kind enough to tolerate me. She may decide I’m holding her back and leave me on the curb after the first couple of days. We’ll see how this works out. But I realized that I had to do something to take care of my health. With so much work to do at the office, I’m often just too tired to exercise and I’ve put on a few more pounds than I need.
The main reason I don’t exercise is that I work too much. Interestingly enough, I came across Proverbs 23:4 that says: “Do not wear yourself out to get rich; have the wisdom to show restraint.” I’m really not greedy or obsessed with riches. I do enjoy what you can do with money. But the main reason that I work too many hours is that I just can’t stand to leave my work undone or not fulfill promises or expectations that my customers or associates have of me. But that also means that I don’t take care of myself nor do I make it home as early as my husband would like for me to. It’s difficult to balance all these responsibilities. God given wisdom includes the ability to balance and prioritize to avoid obsessing over any one aspect of life. I think it also means that I must be conscious of who sets my priorities. Is it me or is it everyone else deciding for me how my day will be spent? I will pray for greater balance and harmony in my day. I will also pray that my teenage running buddy doesn’t wear me out the first day. Does anyone have an Advil?
I’m excited because this afternoon I am starting a walking/running program with a young teenager in our church that is kind enough to tolerate me. She may decide I’m holding her back and leave me on the curb after the first couple of days. We’ll see how this works out. But I realized that I had to do something to take care of my health. With so much work to do at the office, I’m often just too tired to exercise and I’ve put on a few more pounds than I need.
The main reason I don’t exercise is that I work too much. Interestingly enough, I came across Proverbs 23:4 that says: “Do not wear yourself out to get rich; have the wisdom to show restraint.” I’m really not greedy or obsessed with riches. I do enjoy what you can do with money. But the main reason that I work too many hours is that I just can’t stand to leave my work undone or not fulfill promises or expectations that my customers or associates have of me. But that also means that I don’t take care of myself nor do I make it home as early as my husband would like for me to. It’s difficult to balance all these responsibilities. God given wisdom includes the ability to balance and prioritize to avoid obsessing over any one aspect of life. I think it also means that I must be conscious of who sets my priorities. Is it me or is it everyone else deciding for me how my day will be spent? I will pray for greater balance and harmony in my day. I will also pray that my teenage running buddy doesn’t wear me out the first day. Does anyone have an Advil?
Monday, September 14, 2009
Trusting God for Clarity and Wisdom When Making Decisions
Day 12
Yesterday was an exciting day in our church. We voted to accept a new pastor. I did not take this responsibility to vote lightly. I was concerned about bringing a young pastor and his family into our church and knowing with confidence that they would be treated lovingly. Churches are made up of human beings and those human beings don’t always behave the way they should. Sometimes they can be hurtful to the young and inexperienced. But as I sought out God’s will in this matter, it occurred to me that so many times I want to know His will for my own sake, for my own journey. But this journey is not an isolated one. It’s one shared with every person that I touch throughout my life. Whether I’m voting for a new pastor, training new employees or writing this devotional, every decision that is made will affect more than just me.
James 1:5 says “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. “ As I prayed concerning how the Lord would have me vote, I realized that I needed to clear my mind of all past experiences and fears and listen to God’s instruction. And, as I have learned to do during this journey, I also sought out counsel from a fellow Christian that I trusted. With counsel and much prayer, God gave me clarity. Equally important, He made it clear that this decision would affect the lives of others and for any of us to vote contrary to what God had planned would be a huge mistake. So many times I have made decisions based on what I personally wanted or thought was right. It’s a comfort to lay all that down and just follow God’s lead. He knows where He is taking us. You know, when you’re not driving, you can really enjoy the scenery along the way.
Yesterday was an exciting day in our church. We voted to accept a new pastor. I did not take this responsibility to vote lightly. I was concerned about bringing a young pastor and his family into our church and knowing with confidence that they would be treated lovingly. Churches are made up of human beings and those human beings don’t always behave the way they should. Sometimes they can be hurtful to the young and inexperienced. But as I sought out God’s will in this matter, it occurred to me that so many times I want to know His will for my own sake, for my own journey. But this journey is not an isolated one. It’s one shared with every person that I touch throughout my life. Whether I’m voting for a new pastor, training new employees or writing this devotional, every decision that is made will affect more than just me.
James 1:5 says “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. “ As I prayed concerning how the Lord would have me vote, I realized that I needed to clear my mind of all past experiences and fears and listen to God’s instruction. And, as I have learned to do during this journey, I also sought out counsel from a fellow Christian that I trusted. With counsel and much prayer, God gave me clarity. Equally important, He made it clear that this decision would affect the lives of others and for any of us to vote contrary to what God had planned would be a huge mistake. So many times I have made decisions based on what I personally wanted or thought was right. It’s a comfort to lay all that down and just follow God’s lead. He knows where He is taking us. You know, when you’re not driving, you can really enjoy the scenery along the way.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.
Day 11
Yesterday was a long day, starting at 6:00am and finishing up at 11:00pm last night. I don’t normally work these long hours but there is so much to do and so many changes happening that I have accepted this as a season in time that needs this attention. There are new personalities coming into the business, eager and excited to learn and praying for an opportunity to better their lives and support their families. It’s not just about me now. But, I like it when it’s just about me. I’m teasing. I really am exhilarated by the opportunity to help others grow in their business and in their finances but it is an awesome burden to carry when I know that their lives are affected by good or bad decisions on my part. I’m so thankful that I don’t have to carry this burden alone. I have a loving God that is willing to shoulder this responsibility for me if I will just listen to Him. He also provides many awesome advisers, mentors and friends along the way that having a loving and caring spirit that are happy to celebrate the successes of others.
Proverbs 15:22 says that “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” As people have become connected with technology, it seems that they have also become disconnected physically and emotionally. God created us to naturally desire to have human relationships and friendships and He created us to grow and learn by helping each other with good advice and a listening ear. We need each other but, now more than ever, we need a relationship with the Lord. I’m so thankful for the advisers, friends and mentors in my life but I’m most thankful for a loving God that carries burdens that are too heavy for me and counsels me with advice that is never wrong. I just need to be a better listener.
Yesterday was a long day, starting at 6:00am and finishing up at 11:00pm last night. I don’t normally work these long hours but there is so much to do and so many changes happening that I have accepted this as a season in time that needs this attention. There are new personalities coming into the business, eager and excited to learn and praying for an opportunity to better their lives and support their families. It’s not just about me now. But, I like it when it’s just about me. I’m teasing. I really am exhilarated by the opportunity to help others grow in their business and in their finances but it is an awesome burden to carry when I know that their lives are affected by good or bad decisions on my part. I’m so thankful that I don’t have to carry this burden alone. I have a loving God that is willing to shoulder this responsibility for me if I will just listen to Him. He also provides many awesome advisers, mentors and friends along the way that having a loving and caring spirit that are happy to celebrate the successes of others.
Proverbs 15:22 says that “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” As people have become connected with technology, it seems that they have also become disconnected physically and emotionally. God created us to naturally desire to have human relationships and friendships and He created us to grow and learn by helping each other with good advice and a listening ear. We need each other but, now more than ever, we need a relationship with the Lord. I’m so thankful for the advisers, friends and mentors in my life but I’m most thankful for a loving God that carries burdens that are too heavy for me and counsels me with advice that is never wrong. I just need to be a better listener.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Give Jesus the First and Best Part of Your Day
Day 10
This morning has already started out hectic with much to do. I have two new ladies coming into the office today to train and I’m so excited about the opportunities that lie before us. But sometimes I wonder how will I do all that needs to be done? How will I manage, market, train and keep all the balls in the air at one time? I’m surely going to drop one of them!
But then I read to see what Jesus did and in Mark 1:35, I see that “In the early morning, while it was still dark, He arose and went out and departed to a lonely place, and was praying there.” No matter how much there is to do and no matter how many times I neglect doing it, I am always reminded that the day starts and ends so much better if I start in a quiet time of prayer. I have to admit, it’s hard for me some days to clear my mind of all my responsibilities and focus but when I pray and ask God to help me, He will clear away the nonsense and distractions and His message for the day comes through clearly.
I still need to work on complete obedience to this discipline. Sometimes I get ready for work and get other things done first and then sit down to pray and study. Don’t get me wrong, any time spent with God is wonderful. But there’s just something special about that time spent with Him first thing before anything else begins to filter through my mind and my wheels start turning.
I’m so grateful that He always has time for me. I just need to make sure that I always have the best part of my day planned for Him. I hope that today you have that special time with the Lord too.
This morning has already started out hectic with much to do. I have two new ladies coming into the office today to train and I’m so excited about the opportunities that lie before us. But sometimes I wonder how will I do all that needs to be done? How will I manage, market, train and keep all the balls in the air at one time? I’m surely going to drop one of them!
But then I read to see what Jesus did and in Mark 1:35, I see that “In the early morning, while it was still dark, He arose and went out and departed to a lonely place, and was praying there.” No matter how much there is to do and no matter how many times I neglect doing it, I am always reminded that the day starts and ends so much better if I start in a quiet time of prayer. I have to admit, it’s hard for me some days to clear my mind of all my responsibilities and focus but when I pray and ask God to help me, He will clear away the nonsense and distractions and His message for the day comes through clearly.
I still need to work on complete obedience to this discipline. Sometimes I get ready for work and get other things done first and then sit down to pray and study. Don’t get me wrong, any time spent with God is wonderful. But there’s just something special about that time spent with Him first thing before anything else begins to filter through my mind and my wheels start turning.
I’m so grateful that He always has time for me. I just need to make sure that I always have the best part of my day planned for Him. I hope that today you have that special time with the Lord too.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
The Lasting Joy That Comes from Giving to Help Others
Day 9
I talk to people every day that are fearful and worried as we wade through this economic mess in the year 2009. It’s sad to see a great nation like the United States brought to its knees but more even more so, it makes me sad to see the long faces and the anxiety of the individuals, the fathers and mothers, employers and employees, small business owners and church members that have put their faith in the prosperity of our country. The Lord has truly blessed us. But now, for the first time for many families, I see them struggling almost in amazement that this could happen when life had been so good for so long. Most of us never imagined that everything that had always seemed so stable could change so quickly and so drastically. The things of this world truly do pass away.
But at the same time, it warms my heart to see people that have less than they ever had before, looking for ways to give generously to help others. Proverbs 11:25 says that “A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.” Our Sunday school class has a ministry we call AllThingsPossible1926 and we have a blog you can follow at www.AllThingsPossible1926.blogspot.com. We had a yard sale this year and raised $2000 to help the needy by selling donated items. The parking lot was full of people. We had homemade ice cream and baked goods for sale. But more importantly we had such a good time of fellowship and everyone forgot about their own concerns for that moment in time. I had the opportunity to see families working together, being refreshed like never before. But not by the passing pleasure of buying things but by the lasting joy that comes from giving to help others. I hope you are refreshed today.
I talk to people every day that are fearful and worried as we wade through this economic mess in the year 2009. It’s sad to see a great nation like the United States brought to its knees but more even more so, it makes me sad to see the long faces and the anxiety of the individuals, the fathers and mothers, employers and employees, small business owners and church members that have put their faith in the prosperity of our country. The Lord has truly blessed us. But now, for the first time for many families, I see them struggling almost in amazement that this could happen when life had been so good for so long. Most of us never imagined that everything that had always seemed so stable could change so quickly and so drastically. The things of this world truly do pass away.
But at the same time, it warms my heart to see people that have less than they ever had before, looking for ways to give generously to help others. Proverbs 11:25 says that “A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.” Our Sunday school class has a ministry we call AllThingsPossible1926 and we have a blog you can follow at www.AllThingsPossible1926.blogspot.com. We had a yard sale this year and raised $2000 to help the needy by selling donated items. The parking lot was full of people. We had homemade ice cream and baked goods for sale. But more importantly we had such a good time of fellowship and everyone forgot about their own concerns for that moment in time. I had the opportunity to see families working together, being refreshed like never before. But not by the passing pleasure of buying things but by the lasting joy that comes from giving to help others. I hope you are refreshed today.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Seek Him First
Day 8
I’m going through many changes in my business that is exciting and yet intimidating. As my business model evolves I have an overwhelming sense of urgency to plan and organize and to make sure, as my Mamaw always said, to ‘get my ducks in a row’. So as I was thinking about all these things this morning, the thought crossed my mind that I needed to hurry up and get my devotional ‘taken care of’. I needed to check that off my list of to do’s for today.
Well, wouldn’t you know, I turn directly to Matthew 6:33 that says to “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” Busted again! My mind was already on to the things of the day that I felt were most important and I’m ashamed to admit that spending time with the Lord was not the first priority that came to my mind as I was thinking ahead. It should have been. I know better. I spend a lot of time in church and we have a wonderful pastor. I teach Sunday school. I tell them every week to be sure to spend time in prayer and Bible study and yet I failed to “Seek Him first” at a time when it is extremely important.
As I am making decisions and establishing systems and strategies that will have a major impact on the lives of others, why would I not have an even stronger desire than usual to seek out God’s wisdom? I guess there are a lot of reasons including too much to do and too little time or too much confidence in my own abilities. But primarily I was failing to recognize the awesome power that comes with aligning with God’s will, His plan and His purpose for my very existence. There is nothing more important – not now and not ever.
But, I’m also reminded that God gives us all a fresh start every day. Thank you, Lord, for second chances. Thank you for the comfort in knowing that my salvation is not dependent upon my own successes or failures. What a relief!
I’m going through many changes in my business that is exciting and yet intimidating. As my business model evolves I have an overwhelming sense of urgency to plan and organize and to make sure, as my Mamaw always said, to ‘get my ducks in a row’. So as I was thinking about all these things this morning, the thought crossed my mind that I needed to hurry up and get my devotional ‘taken care of’. I needed to check that off my list of to do’s for today.
Well, wouldn’t you know, I turn directly to Matthew 6:33 that says to “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” Busted again! My mind was already on to the things of the day that I felt were most important and I’m ashamed to admit that spending time with the Lord was not the first priority that came to my mind as I was thinking ahead. It should have been. I know better. I spend a lot of time in church and we have a wonderful pastor. I teach Sunday school. I tell them every week to be sure to spend time in prayer and Bible study and yet I failed to “Seek Him first” at a time when it is extremely important.
As I am making decisions and establishing systems and strategies that will have a major impact on the lives of others, why would I not have an even stronger desire than usual to seek out God’s wisdom? I guess there are a lot of reasons including too much to do and too little time or too much confidence in my own abilities. But primarily I was failing to recognize the awesome power that comes with aligning with God’s will, His plan and His purpose for my very existence. There is nothing more important – not now and not ever.
But, I’m also reminded that God gives us all a fresh start every day. Thank you, Lord, for second chances. Thank you for the comfort in knowing that my salvation is not dependent upon my own successes or failures. What a relief!
Friday, September 4, 2009
The Priceless Treasures of Clarity, Calmness, Direction, a Sense of Security and Comfort
Day 7
It’s hard to believe that I’m at the end of a full week of this journey. It seems that I’ve just started but yet the Lord has opened up a world of information. So as I wrap up this first week of striving to know the Lord better and His will in my life, I’m amazed at the simplicity of it all. That’s a powerful word – Simple. As I have pondered the meaning of life and all the things that are just way too deep for an early morning devotional, it all has seemed so mysterious and unknown.
These deep thoughts bring discouragement, frustration or are sometimes a little frightening. But as I’ve spent just a brief 7 days, snuggled up a little closer with the Lord, I realize that it doesn’t have to be that way. He never intended to be distant or foreign to us. He always has and still does desire that we reach out to Him, like a child that reaches for a Mom’s hand. He desires our closeness as much as we need that closeness. And with that closeness comes clarity, calm, direction and a sense of security and comfort. These are the priceless treasures that cannot be found in other relationships, material possessions or anything in this world. Psalm 24:1 says “The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains, the world, and those who dwell in it.”
This time spent has already begun to create a greater sense of calm. I recall when Hurricane Hugo came through our town and how loud the wind was and how it sounded like a train coming down the tracks. I remember seeing large trees bent nearly in half but yet they didn’t break. But when it was over, the sun came out, the skies were blue and it was a beautiful day. Yes, there was much destruction left behind but the air was fresh and I could not ignore the sense of cleansing and renewal. As I talk to people each week, I see the same thing in their lives. These economic times have left a path of destruction for many families but we don’t have to break. The calm and clarity can be found in this walk with Jesus. He desires to help all of us if we will just reach up with that small hand and take His.
It’s hard to believe that I’m at the end of a full week of this journey. It seems that I’ve just started but yet the Lord has opened up a world of information. So as I wrap up this first week of striving to know the Lord better and His will in my life, I’m amazed at the simplicity of it all. That’s a powerful word – Simple. As I have pondered the meaning of life and all the things that are just way too deep for an early morning devotional, it all has seemed so mysterious and unknown.
These deep thoughts bring discouragement, frustration or are sometimes a little frightening. But as I’ve spent just a brief 7 days, snuggled up a little closer with the Lord, I realize that it doesn’t have to be that way. He never intended to be distant or foreign to us. He always has and still does desire that we reach out to Him, like a child that reaches for a Mom’s hand. He desires our closeness as much as we need that closeness. And with that closeness comes clarity, calm, direction and a sense of security and comfort. These are the priceless treasures that cannot be found in other relationships, material possessions or anything in this world. Psalm 24:1 says “The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains, the world, and those who dwell in it.”
This time spent has already begun to create a greater sense of calm. I recall when Hurricane Hugo came through our town and how loud the wind was and how it sounded like a train coming down the tracks. I remember seeing large trees bent nearly in half but yet they didn’t break. But when it was over, the sun came out, the skies were blue and it was a beautiful day. Yes, there was much destruction left behind but the air was fresh and I could not ignore the sense of cleansing and renewal. As I talk to people each week, I see the same thing in their lives. These economic times have left a path of destruction for many families but we don’t have to break. The calm and clarity can be found in this walk with Jesus. He desires to help all of us if we will just reach up with that small hand and take His.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Knowing the Lord Better Begins with Discipline, Prayer, and Proper Planning
Day 6
As I continue on this journey of diligently seeking to know the Lord in a more personal way, it seems that I continually end up in Proverbs – the book of wisdom. After all I did ask for wisdom, didn’t I? The Lord also continues to bring me to issues of discipline and prayer. But there’s another element to consider if I really want to know Him better and that is proper planning.
I’ve always appreciated proper planning and have found having systems in place to be a key to success in business. If you are constantly reinventing the wheel to generate business, you will never succeed. How quickly this came to my mind as it pertains to income producing. This knowledge has come to me by trial and error, advice of mentors and after having made many mistakes. Why didn’t I save myself a lot of stress by asking the Lord for guidance in the first place? He clearly tells us in Proverbs 21:5 that “The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty.” The answers to all questions are right there in God’s word, no matter what the subject.
So whether we’re talking about success in business, organizing the home and family or, as is the subject of our journey, knowing the Lord better – it begins with discipline, prayer, and now proper planning. I’ve found that I can’t hope that a quiet moment to pray and spend time with God will appear. It won’t. If I truly am serious about this journey, I realize that I must plan for this time together. It must be a priority in my schedule, I must be committed to that schedule and know that it’s a planned part of my day. Sometimes it’s difficult, especially as life happens and I get ‘too busy’. But do we ever say that we’re just too busy to get up and go to work? There’s just too much going on in my personal life to work today? Well, no, not if you want to keep your job and pay your bills.
So, I see clearly that I need to apply the same principles in my Christian walk that I have committed to applying in my business, which is discipline and planning. And the best part, a life that is centered around discipline and planning is a life that’s much less stressful. We could all use a little less stress in our lives!
As I continue on this journey of diligently seeking to know the Lord in a more personal way, it seems that I continually end up in Proverbs – the book of wisdom. After all I did ask for wisdom, didn’t I? The Lord also continues to bring me to issues of discipline and prayer. But there’s another element to consider if I really want to know Him better and that is proper planning.
I’ve always appreciated proper planning and have found having systems in place to be a key to success in business. If you are constantly reinventing the wheel to generate business, you will never succeed. How quickly this came to my mind as it pertains to income producing. This knowledge has come to me by trial and error, advice of mentors and after having made many mistakes. Why didn’t I save myself a lot of stress by asking the Lord for guidance in the first place? He clearly tells us in Proverbs 21:5 that “The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty.” The answers to all questions are right there in God’s word, no matter what the subject.
So whether we’re talking about success in business, organizing the home and family or, as is the subject of our journey, knowing the Lord better – it begins with discipline, prayer, and now proper planning. I’ve found that I can’t hope that a quiet moment to pray and spend time with God will appear. It won’t. If I truly am serious about this journey, I realize that I must plan for this time together. It must be a priority in my schedule, I must be committed to that schedule and know that it’s a planned part of my day. Sometimes it’s difficult, especially as life happens and I get ‘too busy’. But do we ever say that we’re just too busy to get up and go to work? There’s just too much going on in my personal life to work today? Well, no, not if you want to keep your job and pay your bills.
So, I see clearly that I need to apply the same principles in my Christian walk that I have committed to applying in my business, which is discipline and planning. And the best part, a life that is centered around discipline and planning is a life that’s much less stressful. We could all use a little less stress in our lives!
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Learning to Listen with our Heart
Day 5
Some days I allow myself to worry over making sound decisions that are aligned with God’s will. And, I often wonder in frustration, how am I supposed to know these things? I don’t think God ever intended for it to be this complicated or for me to worry about it. He provides the instructions. Proverbs 18:15 says “The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out.”
Solomon tells us that if we listen with our heart and our ears that we can have the wisdom and knowledge we need. As I looked at this verse, I looked for what it did not say to do. It doesn’t say to talk about it but to just listen – He said the ‘ears’ of the wise, not the ‘mouth’. And the biggie for me – He didn’t say to analyze it out or to rationalize with my own limited mental abilities. Before I knew the Lord, I used to think of myself as an intellectual. I giggle to myself now just thinking about it. The scripture tells us that the ‘heart’ will seek knowledge. The most foolish mistakes that I’ve ever made were when I have ignored my heart, or as we sometimes say instincts which is the Holy Spirit, and relied upon my own rationalization and reasoning to justify doing what I wanted to do. I take great comfort in knowing that the Lord speaks to me through my quiet moments with Him, when I’m listening with my heart and not trying to debate Him with my own very limited understanding. He sees all things from the mountain top while my vision is as limited as a grasshopper in tall grass.
Our country is facing difficult times and I see people dashing around, grasping for any possible answer to their problems. Today it’s clear that this is the time to slow down, listen to God with an open heart and listening ears. He will guide us through the maze of confusion in these uncertain times. Shhhh. He may be speaking to you right now.
Some days I allow myself to worry over making sound decisions that are aligned with God’s will. And, I often wonder in frustration, how am I supposed to know these things? I don’t think God ever intended for it to be this complicated or for me to worry about it. He provides the instructions. Proverbs 18:15 says “The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out.”
Solomon tells us that if we listen with our heart and our ears that we can have the wisdom and knowledge we need. As I looked at this verse, I looked for what it did not say to do. It doesn’t say to talk about it but to just listen – He said the ‘ears’ of the wise, not the ‘mouth’. And the biggie for me – He didn’t say to analyze it out or to rationalize with my own limited mental abilities. Before I knew the Lord, I used to think of myself as an intellectual. I giggle to myself now just thinking about it. The scripture tells us that the ‘heart’ will seek knowledge. The most foolish mistakes that I’ve ever made were when I have ignored my heart, or as we sometimes say instincts which is the Holy Spirit, and relied upon my own rationalization and reasoning to justify doing what I wanted to do. I take great comfort in knowing that the Lord speaks to me through my quiet moments with Him, when I’m listening with my heart and not trying to debate Him with my own very limited understanding. He sees all things from the mountain top while my vision is as limited as a grasshopper in tall grass.
Our country is facing difficult times and I see people dashing around, grasping for any possible answer to their problems. Today it’s clear that this is the time to slow down, listen to God with an open heart and listening ears. He will guide us through the maze of confusion in these uncertain times. Shhhh. He may be speaking to you right now.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Be Conscious of Where Your Blessings Come From
Day 4
So far on this journey, the Lord has immediately brought to my mind the necessity for discipline if I truly want to know Him better. Do I want to know Him and to know His will for my life enough to become better disciplined? Yes, I really do but only my actions will attest to that.
Today I read in Proverbs 27:2 that I am to “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.” My goodness, have I been boastful, arrogant or prideful? Well, probably. I’m the Type A personality that takes charge, likes to get things done my way and sometimes doesn’t recognize my own limitations. And I have often had little concern for those that couldn’t appreciate my efforts. Step up or step out of the way! Doesn’t sound too pretty when you write it down. But I also realize that these traits are also the same ones that have made me strong and able to deal with hardships and disappointments without being devastated by them. God blessed me with a strong personality but He also wants me to temper it and channel it for His glory and not for my own. As I reflect back over the last few years, I realize that there were many times that I took credit for the blessings that God bestowed upon me both in my personal life and in my business. And there have been too many times that I used the resources from these blessings for my own self interest. But I’m so thankful to have a God that believes in second chances.
In addition to better discipline in my Bible study and prayer life, I will strive to become conscious of where my blessings come from and be careful to give credit where credit is due, not just to the Lord but to all the wonderful people that surround me and help me to succeed. I see that this journey can be a little painful at times. But it’s like cleaning out the closet. You always dread getting started but it’s interesting to uncover things you had forgotten about and how much better it is when things are back in order.
So far on this journey, the Lord has immediately brought to my mind the necessity for discipline if I truly want to know Him better. Do I want to know Him and to know His will for my life enough to become better disciplined? Yes, I really do but only my actions will attest to that.
Today I read in Proverbs 27:2 that I am to “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.” My goodness, have I been boastful, arrogant or prideful? Well, probably. I’m the Type A personality that takes charge, likes to get things done my way and sometimes doesn’t recognize my own limitations. And I have often had little concern for those that couldn’t appreciate my efforts. Step up or step out of the way! Doesn’t sound too pretty when you write it down. But I also realize that these traits are also the same ones that have made me strong and able to deal with hardships and disappointments without being devastated by them. God blessed me with a strong personality but He also wants me to temper it and channel it for His glory and not for my own. As I reflect back over the last few years, I realize that there were many times that I took credit for the blessings that God bestowed upon me both in my personal life and in my business. And there have been too many times that I used the resources from these blessings for my own self interest. But I’m so thankful to have a God that believes in second chances.
In addition to better discipline in my Bible study and prayer life, I will strive to become conscious of where my blessings come from and be careful to give credit where credit is due, not just to the Lord but to all the wonderful people that surround me and help me to succeed. I see that this journey can be a little painful at times. But it’s like cleaning out the closet. You always dread getting started but it’s interesting to uncover things you had forgotten about and how much better it is when things are back in order.
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